How to Get Candid Wedding Photos Without Feeling Awkward

Everyone wants those gorgeous candid wedding photos - the kind where you’re laughing naturally, wiping away tears, or dancing like nobody’s watching. But here’s the secret: the hardest part of capturing candid photos is when people suddenly notice the camera. (Yes, I said it.)

Here are my best tips for getting candid photos that actually feel natural - not stiff or staged.

1. Pretend I’m Not There (Unless I’m Directing You)

This is the biggest one. If I’m not actively posing or instructing you, go about your moment like you normally would. Hug your grandma, dance with your nieces, whisper to your new spouse - just don’t look at me. The second someone turns toward the camera, the “candid” vibe is gone. I try to be sneaky, but there’s only so much I can do when you make eye contact!

2. Focus on Each Other (Not the Camera)

The best candid moments happen when you’re engaged with your people, not with me. Whether it’s your first look, a conversation with your dad before walking down the aisle, or clinking glasses during toasts, focus on what’s happening right in front of you. That’s when your photos look the most genuine.

3. Let the Transitions Happen

Some of my favorite candid photos aren’t the “big moments” at all - they’re the transitions. Walking between locations, adjusting your veil, laughing as the wind blows your hair. These little in-between moments tell the story of your day in ways posed photos can’t.

4. Trust the Process

If you feel a little awkward at first, that’s normal. Everyone does. But as the day goes on, you’ll forget the camera is even there - and that’s when the best candids happen. My job is to help guide when needed, then step back and let things unfold naturally.

The Bottom Line

Candid wedding photos are about real emotion, real laughter, and real connections. If you ignore the camera, focus on each other, and let the day unfold, you’ll end up with candids that feel authentic - not awkward.