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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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Kristy & Joey’s Classic, Elegant Fall Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Kristy & Joey’s early fall wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with golden light, heartfelt vows, and one of the best first dances I’ve ever seen.
Why Lighting Matters More Than Location for Missouri Weddings
Stunning photos aren’t just about location — they’re about light. Here’s why lighting matters more than backdrop when it comes to Missouri wedding photography.
What to Ask a Photographer Before Booking Your Wedding Venue
Before signing that venue contract, ask your photographer these five smart questions about lighting, photo spots, and ceremony timing to ensure picture-perfect results.
10 Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer Before You Book
Choosing your wedding photographer? Ask these 10 key questions to make sure their personality, process, and photography style are the perfect match for your day.
How to Choose the Right Missouri Wedding Photographer for You
Choosing the right wedding photographer in Missouri doesn’t have to be stressful. Here’s how to find someone whose personality, style, and process align with your vision.
Amy & Samuel’s Sweet Dusty Blue Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Amy & Samuel’s September wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with meaningful details, emotional vows, rainy-day portraits, and a family-centered reception.
How to Get Candid Wedding Photos Without Feeling Awkward
Everyone wants natural candid wedding photos - but how do you avoid feeling awkward? Here are my best tips for getting photos that feel real, not staged.
Pros & Cons of Private Vows vs. Ceremony Vows (for Photos)
From intimacy to shorter ceremonies, here are the pros and cons of private vows vs. ceremony vows - and how each impacts your wedding photos.
Detail Photos That Tell the Story of Your Wedding Day
The little things matter. Here are my favorite wedding detail photo ideas that add personality, meaning, and story to your wedding gallery.
Why I Deliver Sneak Peek Photos Within 48 Hours
Weddings are a whirlwind. Here’s why I deliver sneak peek wedding photos within 48 hours - and how it helps you (and me) relive the day faster.
Emily & Erik’s Timeless Black & White Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Emily & Erik’s black & white wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with heartfelt vows, golden hour portraits, and a fun streamer send-off.
How to Avoid a Rushed Wedding Day Photography Timeline
A rushed timeline can take the joy out of your wedding day. Here’s how to plan your wedding photography timeline with enough breathing room to actually enjoy it.
Seasonal Guide: The Best Time of Year for Engagement Photos in Missouri
Spring, summer, fall, or winter - which season is best for engagement photos in Missouri? Here’s a seasonal guide to help you choose.
Wedding Ceremony Photography Moments You Don’t Want to Miss
Your ceremony is the heart of the day. Here are the wedding ceremony photo ideas you don’t want to miss - from parent hugs to that “just married” exit.
The Benefits of Doing Bridal Party Photos Before the Ceremony
Want a smoother wedding day timeline? Here’s why taking bridal party photos before the ceremony will make your bridal party (and you) much happier.
Hope & James’ Summer Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Hope & James were married on the hottest day of the summer at Stonegate Glass Chapel - and it was absolutely beautiful. With pastel florals, a touching bouquet dedication, and soft sunset portraits, this wedding was full of love. Wedding date: August 15, 2025.
Do You Really Need Getting Ready Photos? Pros & Cons
Getting ready photos capture the energy, relationships, and anticipation of your wedding day. Here’s why I’d choose them over reception photos any day.
Classic vs. Trendy: Which Wedding Photo Style Lasts Longer?
Wedding photography lasts long after the day is over - but will your style? Here’s the difference between classic and trendy wedding photography, and which one stands the test of time.
How to Handle Rain on Your Wedding Day (Photo Edition)
Rain doesn’t have to ruin your wedding photos. From umbrellas to backup plans, here are my best tips for handling rain on your wedding day (photo edition).
The Value of an Engagement Session (Even if You Hate Photos)
Engagement sessions aren’t just about pretty pictures. From Save the Dates to building confidence with your photographer, here’s why they’re one of the most valuable parts of wedding prep.