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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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Crystal & Eric at Samuel Cedars
Crystal & Eric’s intimate wedding at Samuel Cedars was a meaningful, family-focused celebration and a perfect close to the 2025 season.
When to Book Your Wedding Photographer
Most wedding photographers book 9–18 months in advance. Here’s what that means for your planning timeline — and when to reach out.
What a Wedding Photographer Does on a Wedding Day
From prep and timelines to portraits, ceremonies, and backups — here’s what a wedding photographer actually does on a wedding day.
Hayley & Dakota at Thorncrown Chapel
Hayley & Dakota’s intimate elopement at Thorncrown Chapel was a peaceful, meaningful celebration surrounded by fall light and glass architecture.
How to Choose the Right Wedding Photography Package for Your Day
Choosing the right wedding photography package comes down to priorities, timeline, and realistic expectations. Here’s how to find the best fit for your day.
How Much Wedding Photography Really Costs (And Why Prices Vary So Much)
Wedding photography prices can vary widely. Here’s what actually affects the cost — from experience and packages to what happens behind the scenes.
Hannah & Ryan’s Fall Engagement Session at Finley Farms
Hannah & Ryan’s fall engagement session at Finley Farms came together perfectly after a reschedule, with peak fall color and relaxed, natural moments.
My Favorite Wedding Days (And Why They Worked)
From snow-filled ceremonies to rain-soaked dance floors, these are my favorite wedding days I’ve photographed — and why the days (not just the photos) worked so well.
Engagement Photo Outfit Ideas for Every Season in Missouri
From flannels in fall to florals in spring, here are my favorite engagement photo outfit ideas for every season in Missouri — comfortable, timeless, and photogenic.
Engagement Session Checklist: Everything to Bring (and Leave at Home)
Wondering what to pack for your engagement photos? Here’s a quick checklist of what to bring — and what’s better left behind — to keep your session relaxed and fun.
Elizabeth & Okey’s Columbia, Missouri Elopement
Elizabeth & Okey’s Columbia elopement featured a private, faith-filled ceremony and editorial-style portraits around Mizzou’s campus during peak fall color.
How to Choose a Wedding Venue with Great Natural Light for Photos
The right natural light makes all the difference. Here’s how to choose a Missouri wedding venue that photographs beautifully — and which spaces matter most.
The Power of Simplicity in Wedding Photography (Less Is More)
Sometimes, the most powerful wedding photos are also the simplest. Here’s how focusing on emotion and intention — not excess — keeps your photos timeless.
Why Timeless Wedding Photography Will Always Outlast Trends
Trends fade, but emotion doesn’t. Here’s why timeless, true-to-color wedding photography will always outlast whatever editing trend is popular this year.
How True-to-Color Editing Brings Your Day Back to Life
Your wedding photos should look like your day actually looked. Here’s how true-to-color editing brings your memories back to life — naturally and timelessly.
Kaitlyn & Ben’s Engagement Session at Dogwood Canyon
A golden, fog-filled fall morning made Kaitlyn and Ben’s Dogwood Canyon engagement session one of my all-time favorites.
Morning vs. Evening Engagement Sessions: Which One’s Right for You?
Morning or evening engagement session? Here’s how to decide based on lighting, location, and personal vibe — plus a few tips from a Missouri wedding photographer.
How to Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera Before Your Engagement Photos
Feeling nervous before your engagement photos? Here’s how to relax, connect, and feel comfortable in front of the camera for photos that capture your real personalities.
The Secret to Stress-Free Wedding Day Photos (It’s All in the Planning)
Stress-free wedding photos don’t happen by chance — they happen through planning. Here’s how to build a timeline and mindset for a calm, joyful wedding day.
5 Things Every Couple Should Do Before Their Wedding Day for Better Photos
The secret to amazing wedding photos starts before the big day. Here are five easy ways to prepare so your photos feel natural, relaxed, and full of joy.