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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
Wedding Planning Timeline Tips from a Photographer
From first looks to flat lays—here are my go-to questions to help build a wedding timeline that’s stress-free and photo-friendly.
What’s Really Worth the Investment on Your Wedding Day (and What Isn’t)
Wondering where to spend and where to save on your wedding? Here are my top picks after years of working behind the scenes as both a venue manager and wedding photographer.
Rain, Dancing, and Sweet Moments at Haseltine Estates | Rachel & Caiden’s Wedding
Outdoor vows, dancing in the rain, and some of the best cake I’ve ever had—Rachel & Caiden’s spring wedding at Haseltine Estates was full of joy and surprises.
Cozy & Timeless Indoor Reception Ideas
Planning an indoor wedding? Here are a few easy and timeless ways to elevate your reception space—no matter the size or venue.
How I Balance Posed & Candid Moments as a Wedding Photographer
Wondering how to get natural, not-so-awkward wedding photos? Here’s how I balance posing with candid moments to help you look and feel like your best self.
Emily & Erik’s Engagement Session at Finley Farms
Sunny skies and relaxed vibes made for a beautiful evening at Finley Farms for Emily & Erik’s engagement session. Counting down to their August wedding!
Brittany & Alex’s Sweet Family Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
A beautiful family-focused wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel, complete with sweet first looks, meaningful details, and one very emotional father-daughter dance.
How to Get the Most Out of Your First Look
Your first look doesn’t have to be dramatic to be meaningful. Here are 5 ways to get the most out of that sweet, quiet moment before your ceremony.
Alivia & Cade’s Engagement Session at Finley Farms
An effortlessly sweet spring engagement session at Finley Farms, full of golden light, laughter, and creative moments—thanks to prom night surprises.
Lana & Trey’s Elegant Spring Engagement Session at All Saints Anglican Church
A golden-hour engagement session at All Saints Anglican Church with Lana & Trey—full of elegance, soft spring light, and a sweet behind-the-scenes moment.
How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Session Location
Not sure where to take your engagement photos? Here’s how to choose the perfect location based on your style, the season, and what feels like you.
A Joyful March Wedding at Samuel Cedars for Kimberly & Shawn
Kimberly & Shawn’s long-awaited spring wedding at Samuel Cedars was full of sunshine, laughter, and one of the liveliest receptions I’ve seen in a while.
A Last-Minute Branson Engagement Session with Kyleigh & Jed
From lake views to blooming trees, Kyleigh & Jed’s spontaneous engagement session in Branson turned into one of my all-time favorites.
5 Easy Ways to Look More Natural in Your Engagement Photos
Feeling camera shy? Here are 5 easy ways to look more natural in your engagement photos—plus some tried-and-true tips I share with every couple.
Saige & Quint’s Classy Black & White Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
From Shrek references to cigar photos, Saige & Quint’s black and white Stonegate wedding had it all—heartfelt moments, creative portraits, and big dance floor energy.
A Simple & Sweet Early Spring Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Brittney & Spencer’s March wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was everything a spring celebration should be—relaxed, romantic, and full of golden light.
10 Essential Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer Before Booking
Hiring a wedding photographer is a big decision—after all, these are the photos you’ll look back on for years to come! Finding the right photographer isn’t just about loving their portfolio; it’s also about making sure they’re a great fit for your wedding day. Here are 10 essential questions to ask before booking your wedding photographer:
Daniel & Darby’s SNOWY Engagement Session
Snowstorm? No problem. Daniel & Darby’s last-minute blizzard engagement session delivered winter magic, big laughs, and some of my favorite snowy portraits yet.
Daniel & Darby’s Proposal – A Perfectly Unexpected Moment
Some proposals go exactly as planned, and some require a last-minute pivot—Daniel and Darby’s was definitely the latter! As my brother, Daniel had been filling me in on his proposal plans for weeks, carefully mapping out the perfect moment. But when Darby accidentally found out it was coming, he had to adjust fast. What she didn’t know was that the proposal was happening immediately after a nail appointment—one that I, of course, took her to in preparation for the big moment. (No complaints here; I love a good excuse for a manicure!)
Tips for Capturing Candid Moments on Your Wedding Day
Your wedding day is all about real, authentic moments—those little bursts of joy, laughter, and connection that make your story uniquely yours. Capturing those candid memories doesn’t happen by chance, though. With a little planning and the right mindset, you can ensure your wedding album is brimming with genuine emotion.