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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
Classic vs. Trendy: Which Wedding Photo Style Lasts Longer?
Wedding photography lasts long after the day is over - but will your style? Here’s the difference between classic and trendy wedding photography, and which one stands the test of time.
How to Handle Rain on Your Wedding Day (Photo Edition)
Rain doesn’t have to ruin your wedding photos. From umbrellas to backup plans, here are my best tips for handling rain on your wedding day (photo edition).
The Value of an Engagement Session (Even if You Hate Photos)
Engagement sessions aren’t just about pretty pictures. From Save the Dates to building confidence with your photographer, here’s why they’re one of the most valuable parts of wedding prep.
A Late Summer Glow | Jasmine & Tanner’s Wedding at Samuel Cedars
Jasmine & Tanner’s late summer wedding at Samuel Cedars took place on a hot August day, with an outdoor ceremony, sunset portraits, and a unique Italian cream soda reception.
Tips for Bridal Party Photos that Feel Natural, Not Stiff
Bridal party photos don’t have to feel stiff or forced. Here’s how I guide groups through natural, traditional poses that keep things simple, timeless, and fun.
Pros & Cons of a Sparkler Send-Off (from a Photographer’s View)
Sparkler exits make for gorgeous photos - but are they worth it? Here are the pros, cons, and alternatives to sparkler send-offs from a wedding photographer’s perspective.
Tips for Including Heirlooms & Personal Details in Your Wedding Photos
Heirlooms and personal details add meaning to your wedding photos. Here’s how to choose the right items, keep them organized, and capture them beautifully.
How to Build a Wedding Photo Shot List (Without Overwhelm)
A wedding shot list helps capture your most important moments, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here’s how to keep it simple and stress-free.
A Gorgeous Summer Wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock | Sarah & Braiden
From first looks to sunset portraits, Sarah & Braiden’s wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock was full of sweet moments and unforgettable light.
Why You Shouldn’t Skip Sunset Photos on Your Wedding Day
Thinking about skipping sunset photos at your wedding? Here’s why golden hour portraits are worth it - for the light, the memories, and the break from your reception.
How Many Family Photos Should You Plan for on Your Wedding Day?
Wondering how many family photos you should plan for on your wedding day? Here’s how to balance immediate family portraits with extended group shots.
How to Choose the Perfect Getting Ready Location for Wedding Photos
Lighting, clutter, and statement details - here’s how to choose the perfect getting ready location for beautiful wedding morning photos.
Reception Photography Ideas Beyond Dancing
Your reception photos don’t have to be all about dancing. Here are fun, photo-worthy ideas like the shoe game, scavenger hunts, portrait backdrops, and more.
Bright Colors & Sweet Vows | Pfifer & Gray at Stonegate Glass Chapel
From bold florals to personal vows and a sparkler exit, Pfifer & Gray’s colorful Stonegate Glass Chapel wedding was full of joy, color, and unforgettable moments.
The Case for a Morning Wedding: Photos, Lighting, and Timeline Benefits
Considering a morning wedding? Here’s what I’ve learned from photographing them - from lighting challenges to timeline perks and the unique energy they bring.
The Pros & Cons of a Long vs. Short Wedding Day Photography Package
Not sure how many hours of wedding photography you need? Here’s a breakdown of what fits into 6, 8, and 10-hour packages, with the pros and cons of each.
Do You Really Need a Second Photographer at Your Wedding?
Do you really need a second photographer at your wedding? Here’s my honest take as a wedding photographer who usually works solo - plus when it actually makes sense to add one.
How to Get Stress-Free Family Photos on Your Wedding Day
Family portraits don’t have to be chaotic. Here’s how to get stress-free wedding day photos with the people who matter most - without the stress or confusion.
Black, White & Gold Elegance | Macy & Noah’s Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Classy details, a sweet personal ceremony, and one of the most fun dance floors I’ve seen - Macy & Noah’s black, white, and gold wedding was a joy to capture.
What to Wear for Engagement Photos (Tips from a Photographer)
Choosing what to wear for your engagement photos doesn’t have to be complicated. Here’s how to pick outfits that photograph beautifully - and feel like you.