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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories

Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.

Shalyn O'Neal 10/30/25 Shalyn O'Neal 10/30/25

Do You Really Need Getting Ready Photos? Pros & Cons

Getting ready photos capture the energy, relationships, and anticipation of your wedding day. Here’s why I’d choose them over reception photos any day.

Shalyn O'Neal 10/13/25 Shalyn O'Neal 10/13/25

Pros & Cons of a Sparkler Send-Off (from a Photographer’s View)

Sparkler exits make for gorgeous photos - but are they worth it? Here are the pros, cons, and alternatives to sparkler send-offs from a wedding photographer’s perspective.

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The Pros & Cons of a Long vs. Short Wedding Day Photography Package

Not sure how many hours of wedding photography you need? Here’s a breakdown of what fits into 6, 8, and 10-hour packages, with the pros and cons of each.

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How Much Time Do You Really Need for Wedding Photos?

Not sure how much photo coverage you really need? Here’s what 6, 8, and 10-hour wedding days actually look like - so you can choose what fits your timeline best.

Shalyn O'Neal 8/11/25 Shalyn O'Neal 8/11/25

Should You Do A First Look? Pros & Cons from a Photographer

Not sure if you should do a first look on your wedding day? I’m breaking down the pros and cons—from emotion and timing to tradition and lighting—so you can decide what fits your vibe.