How to Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera Before Your Engagement Photos
If you feel a little nervous before your engagement session — you’re not alone. Almost every couple tells me they’re awkward in front of the camera or “don’t know what to do with their hands.” (Spoiler: you’ll do just fine.) The truth is, no one expects you to be models. Your engagement session is about connection and comfort, not perfection. Here are a few practical ways to ease those nerves and feel more natural once the camera comes out.
Chat with Your Photographer Before You Start
Don’t go straight from saying “hi” to posing. Whether it’s in the parking lot or walking to your first location, take a few minutes to chat with your photographer before diving in. Those few minutes of small talk can make a huge difference — it gives you time to relax, get a feel for their energy, and shake off that “we’re about to take photos” stiffness.
Expect to Feel a Little Awkward (At First)
Even the most confident couples feel a little awkward for the first few minutes — and that’s completely normal. Most people haven’t spent much time in front of a professional camera, let alone with their fiancé, so it can take a few minutes to warm up. Your photographer will help you figure out which poses feel most natural for both of you. By the time you’re halfway through, you’ll forget you ever felt nervous at all.
Focus on Each Other, Not the Camera
This one’s simple, but it works. The more you focus on your partner instead of the lens, the more natural your expressions and body language will be. Laugh, talk, whisper something funny — anything that brings out real emotion will make your photos feel like you.
Have a Good Attitude (It Shows!)
It sounds silly, but your mindset really does affect your photos. If you go in with a relaxed, positive attitude, it’ll show in every image. Even if it’s hot, windy, or not quite what you pictured — try to lean into the experience. Your photographer can handle the rest (lighting, posing, camera angles — all of it). No photographer in the world can fake genuine joy, so do your best to find it in the moment — and you’ll love your gallery so much more because of it.
Final Thoughts
Getting comfortable in front of the camera doesn’t happen instantly, but that’s okay. Give yourself a few minutes to warm up, focus on each other, and trust your photographer — that’s the recipe for photos that feel like you.