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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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Wedding Ceremony Photography Moments You Don’t Want to Miss
Your ceremony is the heart of the day. Here are the wedding ceremony photo ideas you don’t want to miss - from parent hugs to that “just married” exit.
The Benefits of Doing Bridal Party Photos Before the Ceremony
Want a smoother wedding day timeline? Here’s why taking bridal party photos before the ceremony will make your bridal party (and you) much happier.
Hope & James’ Summer Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Hope & James were married on the hottest day of the summer at Stonegate Glass Chapel - and it was absolutely beautiful. With pastel florals, a touching bouquet dedication, and soft sunset portraits, this wedding was full of love. Wedding date: August 15, 2025.
Do You Really Need Getting Ready Photos? Pros & Cons
Getting ready photos capture the energy, relationships, and anticipation of your wedding day. Here’s why I’d choose them over reception photos any day.
Classic vs. Trendy: Which Wedding Photo Style Lasts Longer?
Wedding photography lasts long after the day is over - but will your style? Here’s the difference between classic and trendy wedding photography, and which one stands the test of time.
How to Handle Rain on Your Wedding Day (Photo Edition)
Rain doesn’t have to ruin your wedding photos. From umbrellas to backup plans, here are my best tips for handling rain on your wedding day (photo edition).
The Value of an Engagement Session (Even if You Hate Photos)
Engagement sessions aren’t just about pretty pictures. From Save the Dates to building confidence with your photographer, here’s why they’re one of the most valuable parts of wedding prep.
A Late Summer Glow | Jasmine & Tanner’s Wedding at Samuel Cedars
Jasmine & Tanner’s late summer wedding at Samuel Cedars took place on a hot August day, with an outdoor ceremony, sunset portraits, and a unique Italian cream soda reception.
Tips for Bridal Party Photos that Feel Natural, Not Stiff
Bridal party photos don’t have to feel stiff or forced. Here’s how I guide groups through natural, traditional poses that keep things simple, timeless, and fun.
Pros & Cons of a Sparkler Send-Off (from a Photographer’s View)
Sparkler exits make for gorgeous photos - but are they worth it? Here are the pros, cons, and alternatives to sparkler send-offs from a wedding photographer’s perspective.
Tips for Including Heirlooms & Personal Details in Your Wedding Photos
Heirlooms and personal details add meaning to your wedding photos. Here’s how to choose the right items, keep them organized, and capture them beautifully.
How to Build a Wedding Photo Shot List (Without Overwhelm)
A wedding shot list helps capture your most important moments, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here’s how to keep it simple and stress-free.
A Gorgeous Summer Wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock | Sarah & Braiden
From first looks to sunset portraits, Sarah & Braiden’s wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock was full of sweet moments and unforgettable light.
Why You Shouldn’t Skip Sunset Photos on Your Wedding Day
Thinking about skipping sunset photos at your wedding? Here’s why golden hour portraits are worth it - for the light, the memories, and the break from your reception.
How Many Family Photos Should You Plan for on Your Wedding Day?
Wondering how many family photos you should plan for on your wedding day? Here’s how to balance immediate family portraits with extended group shots.
How to Choose the Perfect Getting Ready Location for Wedding Photos
Lighting, clutter, and statement details - here’s how to choose the perfect getting ready location for beautiful wedding morning photos.
Reception Photography Ideas Beyond Dancing
Your reception photos don’t have to be all about dancing. Here are fun, photo-worthy ideas like the shoe game, scavenger hunts, portrait backdrops, and more.
Bright Colors & Sweet Vows | Pfifer & Gray at Stonegate Glass Chapel
From bold florals to personal vows and a sparkler exit, Pfifer & Gray’s colorful Stonegate Glass Chapel wedding was full of joy, color, and unforgettable moments.
The Case for a Morning Wedding: Photos, Lighting, and Timeline Benefits
Considering a morning wedding? Here’s what I’ve learned from photographing them - from lighting challenges to timeline perks and the unique energy they bring.
The Pros & Cons of a Long vs. Short Wedding Day Photography Package
Not sure how many hours of wedding photography you need? Here’s a breakdown of what fits into 6, 8, and 10-hour packages, with the pros and cons of each.