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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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Pros & Cons of Private Vows vs. Ceremony Vows (for Photos)
From intimacy to shorter ceremonies, here are the pros and cons of private vows vs. ceremony vows - and how each impacts your wedding photos.
Detail Photos That Tell the Story of Your Wedding Day
The little things matter. Here are my favorite wedding detail photo ideas that add personality, meaning, and story to your wedding gallery.
Why I Deliver Sneak Peek Photos Within 48 Hours
Weddings are a whirlwind. Here’s why I deliver sneak peek wedding photos within 48 hours - and how it helps you (and me) relive the day faster.
Emily & Erik’s Timeless Black & White Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Emily & Erik’s black & white wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with heartfelt vows, golden hour portraits, and a fun streamer send-off.
How to Avoid a Rushed Wedding Day Photography Timeline
A rushed timeline can take the joy out of your wedding day. Here’s how to plan your wedding photography timeline with enough breathing room to actually enjoy it.
Seasonal Guide: The Best Time of Year for Engagement Photos in Missouri
Spring, summer, fall, or winter - which season is best for engagement photos in Missouri? Here’s a seasonal guide to help you choose.
Wedding Ceremony Photography Moments You Don’t Want to Miss
Your ceremony is the heart of the day. Here are the wedding ceremony photo ideas you don’t want to miss - from parent hugs to that “just married” exit.
The Benefits of Doing Bridal Party Photos Before the Ceremony
Want a smoother wedding day timeline? Here’s why taking bridal party photos before the ceremony will make your bridal party (and you) much happier.
Hope & James’ Summer Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Hope & James were married on the hottest day of the summer at Stonegate Glass Chapel - and it was absolutely beautiful. With pastel florals, a touching bouquet dedication, and soft sunset portraits, this wedding was full of love. Wedding date: August 15, 2025.
Do You Really Need Getting Ready Photos? Pros & Cons
Getting ready photos capture the energy, relationships, and anticipation of your wedding day. Here’s why I’d choose them over reception photos any day.
Classic vs. Trendy: Which Wedding Photo Style Lasts Longer?
Wedding photography lasts long after the day is over - but will your style? Here’s the difference between classic and trendy wedding photography, and which one stands the test of time.
How to Handle Rain on Your Wedding Day (Photo Edition)
Rain doesn’t have to ruin your wedding photos. From umbrellas to backup plans, here are my best tips for handling rain on your wedding day (photo edition).
The Value of an Engagement Session (Even if You Hate Photos)
Engagement sessions aren’t just about pretty pictures. From Save the Dates to building confidence with your photographer, here’s why they’re one of the most valuable parts of wedding prep.
A Late Summer Glow | Jasmine & Tanner’s Wedding at Samuel Cedars
Jasmine & Tanner’s late summer wedding at Samuel Cedars took place on a hot August day, with an outdoor ceremony, sunset portraits, and a unique Italian cream soda reception.
Tips for Bridal Party Photos that Feel Natural, Not Stiff
Bridal party photos don’t have to feel stiff or forced. Here’s how I guide groups through natural, traditional poses that keep things simple, timeless, and fun.
Pros & Cons of a Sparkler Send-Off (from a Photographer’s View)
Sparkler exits make for gorgeous photos - but are they worth it? Here are the pros, cons, and alternatives to sparkler send-offs from a wedding photographer’s perspective.
Tips for Including Heirlooms & Personal Details in Your Wedding Photos
Heirlooms and personal details add meaning to your wedding photos. Here’s how to choose the right items, keep them organized, and capture them beautifully.
How to Build a Wedding Photo Shot List (Without Overwhelm)
A wedding shot list helps capture your most important moments, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Here’s how to keep it simple and stress-free.
A Gorgeous Summer Wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock | Sarah & Braiden
From first looks to sunset portraits, Sarah & Braiden’s wedding at The Venue at Shadow Rock was full of sweet moments and unforgettable light.
Why You Shouldn’t Skip Sunset Photos on Your Wedding Day
Thinking about skipping sunset photos at your wedding? Here’s why golden hour portraits are worth it - for the light, the memories, and the break from your reception.