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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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How Much Time Do You Really Need for Wedding Photos?
Not sure how much photo coverage you really need? Here’s what 6, 8, and 10-hour wedding days actually look like - so you can choose what fits your timeline best.
Top 5 Must-Have Wedding Photos (That Never Go Out of Style)
Trends come and go - but these five classic wedding photos always hold up. A must-read for couples planning their shot list!
When to Schedule Your Engagement Photos (By Season & Lighting)
Not sure when to take your engagement photos? This guide walks you through the best seasons, lighting tips, and how to find your perfect photo vibe.
Orange, Blue, and Country Views | Olivia & Spencer’s Elegant Summer Wedding
From a creekside portrait session to a transformed auction barn and the best kind of bubble exit - Olivia & Spencer’s wedding was full of light, love, and country charm.
My Favorite Wedding Venues in Missouri (with Real Wedding Galleries)
From forest chapels to garden gazebos, these are my favorite Missouri wedding venues - plus real wedding galleries so you can see them in action.
Jared & Jean’s Rain-or-Shine Elopement at Stonegate Glass Chapel
When nothing went according to plan—but everything still felt right. Jared & Jean’s heartfelt elopement at Stonegate Glass Chapel was a reminder of what really matters.
What Makes a Photographer “Traditional” (In the Best Way)
Traditional wedding photography doesn’t mean stiff or outdated. It means true-to-color, emotionally grounded images that prioritize connection, family, and timeless memories—without chasing every trend.
Should You Do A First Look? Pros & Cons from a Photographer
Not sure if you should do a first look on your wedding day? I’m breaking down the pros and cons—from emotion and timing to tradition and lighting—so you can decide what fits your vibe.
Amy & Sam’s Classic Black & White Engagement Session at All Saints Anglican Church
Chic black-and-white outfits and the easiest posing ever - Amy & Sam’s engagement session at All Saints Anglican Church was effortlessly beautiful.
Why I Love Photographing Weddings in Southwest Missouri
Southwest Missouri has so much to offer for weddings—think natural beauty, seasonal variety, and accessibility for family coming in from all over. Here’s why I love photographing weddings here (and why it might be the perfect place for your big day).
Best Engagement Session Locations in Southwest Missouri
If you’re newly engaged and searching for the perfect place to take engagement photos near Springfield or Branson, these five locations are my go-to favorites. From garden blooms to downtown texture, each spot offers something unique—especially during golden hour.
A Family-Focused Wedding at The Barn at Belamour | Megan & Bradley
A May wedding full of heartfelt vows, surprise sunshine, and one incredible flower boy—Megan & Bradley’s big day at The Barn at Belamour was pure joy.
Wedding Planning Timeline Tips from a Photographer
From first looks to flat lays—here are my go-to questions to help build a wedding timeline that’s stress-free and photo-friendly.
What’s Really Worth the Investment on Your Wedding Day (and What Isn’t)
Wondering where to spend and where to save on your wedding? Here are my top picks after years of working behind the scenes as both a venue manager and wedding photographer.
Rain, Dancing, and Sweet Moments at Haseltine Estates | Rachel & Caiden’s Wedding
Outdoor vows, dancing in the rain, and some of the best cake I’ve ever had—Rachel & Caiden’s spring wedding at Haseltine Estates was full of joy and surprises.
Cozy & Timeless Indoor Reception Ideas
Planning an indoor wedding? Here are a few easy and timeless ways to elevate your reception space—no matter the size or venue.
How I Balance Posed & Candid Moments as a Wedding Photographer
Wondering how to get natural, not-so-awkward wedding photos? Here’s how I balance posing with candid moments to help you look and feel like your best self.
Emily & Erik’s Engagement Session at Finley Farms
Sunny skies and relaxed vibes made for a beautiful evening at Finley Farms for Emily & Erik’s engagement session. Counting down to their August wedding!
Brittany & Alex’s Sweet Family Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
A beautiful family-focused wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel, complete with sweet first looks, meaningful details, and one very emotional father-daughter dance.
How to Get the Most Out of Your First Look
Your first look doesn’t have to be dramatic to be meaningful. Here are 5 ways to get the most out of that sweet, quiet moment before your ceremony.