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The Blog – Wedding Advice, Inspiration & Missouri Love Stories
Welcome to my corner of stories and insights. Here, I share recent weddings, engagement sessions, and helpful planning tips drawn from my years in the wedding industry. Browse through for inspiration, practical advice, and a glimpse into the genuine moments I've had the privilege to capture. I hope you find something that speaks to you as you plan your own celebration.
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Morning vs. Evening Engagement Sessions: Which One’s Right for You?
Morning or evening engagement session? Here’s how to decide based on lighting, location, and personal vibe — plus a few tips from a Missouri wedding photographer.
How to Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera Before Your Engagement Photos
Feeling nervous before your engagement photos? Here’s how to relax, connect, and feel comfortable in front of the camera for photos that capture your real personalities.
The Secret to Stress-Free Wedding Day Photos (It’s All in the Planning)
Stress-free wedding photos don’t happen by chance — they happen through planning. Here’s how to build a timeline and mindset for a calm, joyful wedding day.
5 Things Every Couple Should Do Before Their Wedding Day for Better Photos
The secret to amazing wedding photos starts before the big day. Here are five easy ways to prepare so your photos feel natural, relaxed, and full of joy.
Stacy & Daulton’s Rainy Fall Wedding at Samuel Cedars
Stacy & Daulton’s October wedding at Samuel Cedars turned a rainy forecast into magic — cozy indoor portraits, colorful details, and a packed dance floor.
The Most Overlooked Wedding Details That Make a Big Difference in Photos
It’s often the little details — fresh flowers, clean rings, and simple styling — that elevate your wedding photos the most. Here’s what to focus on.
Wedding Morning Tips for Calm, Beautiful Photos
A calm wedding morning means better photos and less stress. Here’s how to prep your space, schedule smartly, and enjoy your getting ready time.
A Look Back at 2025: My Biggest Year of Photography Yet
2025 was my biggest year of photography yet — full of weddings, elopements, travel, gratitude, and lessons I’ll carry into the next season.
How to Build a Realistic Photography Timeline When You Have Multiple Locations
Having your wedding day spread across multiple locations? Here’s how to plan a smooth photography timeline with the right buffer time, organization, and support.
Daniel & Darby’s Fall Wedding at Samuel Cedars
Daniel & Darby’s fall wedding at Samuel Cedars was extra special — filled with golden hour portraits, sweet family moments, and a surprise mid-reception haircut.
Common Wedding Timeline Mistakes (and How to Fix Them Before the Day)
These are the wedding timeline mistakes I see most often — and how to fix them before the day for a smoother, stress-free experience.
The Ideal Order for Wedding Day Events (From a Photographer’s Perspective)
Wondering what order your wedding day events should go in? Here’s a photographer’s guide to planning a calm, photo-friendly timeline that flows naturally.
How Long Each Wedding Photo Segment Really Takes
From detail photos to the dance floor, here’s how much time each part of your wedding day really takes — straight from a photographer who’s seen it all.
Kristy & Joey’s Classic, Elegant Fall Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Kristy & Joey’s early fall wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with golden light, heartfelt vows, and one of the best first dances I’ve ever seen.
Why Lighting Matters More Than Location for Missouri Weddings
Stunning photos aren’t just about location — they’re about light. Here’s why lighting matters more than backdrop when it comes to Missouri wedding photography.
What to Ask a Photographer Before Booking Your Wedding Venue
Before signing that venue contract, ask your photographer these five smart questions about lighting, photo spots, and ceremony timing to ensure picture-perfect results.
10 Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer Before You Book
Choosing your wedding photographer? Ask these 10 key questions to make sure their personality, process, and photography style are the perfect match for your day.
How to Choose the Right Missouri Wedding Photographer for You
Choosing the right wedding photographer in Missouri doesn’t have to be stressful. Here’s how to find someone whose personality, style, and process align with your vision.
Amy & Samuel’s Sweet Dusty Blue Wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel
Amy & Samuel’s September wedding at Stonegate Glass Chapel was filled with meaningful details, emotional vows, rainy-day portraits, and a family-centered reception.
How to Get Candid Wedding Photos Without Feeling Awkward
Everyone wants natural candid wedding photos - but how do you avoid feeling awkward? Here are my best tips for getting photos that feel real, not staged.